Relationary

What does a relational approach to ministry look like in different cultures?
Robin speaks to Mary Haile about her experience of being a Ethiopian missionary to London.
This episode is part of a series diver deeper into Relational Ministry, which was the main topic of the 2026 Relational Theology Day.
Meron (Mary) is sent by Eastridge Church, Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. She works alongside Inspire Saint James Church, based in central London. Mary teaches English as a second language to migrants and is involved in door-to-door ministry, as well as running life-skills courses for low-income families.
Support Mary, and find out more through "Serving in Mission" https://sim.co.uk/about/people/person/mary-haile/
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
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How do you lead from a relational stand-point?
Robin discusses with Andy and Phil some of the challenges and opportunities that come with leading a small group of Christians in a relational manner. 
This episode explores the model that Jesus provides in leading small groups.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
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What is the difference between a Greek and Hebraic mindset for Christians?
Phil discusses with Andy and Robin some of the main hallmarks of the Hebraic way of thinking, and how this might impact how Christians engage with their Bibles and a more relational way of living.
This episode explores how a different worldview can impact our relationships.
Some of the resources mentioned in this podcast are:
Aleph BetaRabbi SacksBEMA Podcast
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.

The following is Andy’s presentation of the Big Story of the Bible that was part of a wider discussion in a recent webinar. Andy explores how the story is one of bringing humanity back home again.
This episode explores the driving narrative of the Bible through a lens of relational theology.
Andy Parnham, after years working as a doctor, turned to community work in inner London, during which time he and his family moved for a while to live in the Middle East. He went on to train as a Life Coach and now works as a wellbeing coach, trainer and advisor in many contexts.
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Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.

Pastor Seyi Olusile looks back on his long and eventful life with Andy. 
Coming to England from Nigeria as a student, he was dazzled by the bright lights and found himself pursuing a random and destructive life – until he bumped into a childhood friend, who drew him back into life with God.
Thus began a sometimes tumultuous but rewarding life. Enjoy his story.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our website: https://relationary.org.uk/audio/And get in touch via Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationary.org.uk/
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What happened at this year's Relational Theology Day? 
Andy and Robin discuss their experiences and thoughts on this year's Relational Theology Day.
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This episodes dives into the topics discussed this year, with a special emphasis on Ephesians 4, Microchurches, Deconstruction and Relational Theology.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities.
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How can we grow in wisdom?
Robin discussed with Andy and Phil, the experience of practically growing in wisdom. This episode explores the holistic nature of wisdom, and its implications for every area of life.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
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Edited by: Yishak Haile

How do we navigate fractured society?
Jide Ehizele and Andy, discuss Jide's story. This episode explores questions of identity, and how this influences our posture in society.
Jide Ehizele, is a Christian thinker and writer focusing on faith, identity and cultural renewal.
In his Substack, Southeast London Psalms, Jide wrestles with faith, politics and community from the perspective of a Black British Christian living in modern Britain.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Edited by: Yishak Haile

What gives you life?
Long-time friends, Corin Pilling and Andy, explore what it means, and some practical considerations, of pursuing a flourishing life. This episode explores how flourishing is deeply linked to meaning and connection.
Corin Pilling, is a Vocational Flourishing Officer at the Methodist Church.
You can connect with him via https://www.instagram.com/corinpilling/ Find out more on on this link.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Edited by: Yishak Haile

What is the connection between happiness and purpose?
Andy speaks with Robin and Phil about the nature of happiness, in connection to a purpose-driven life, fuelled by relationships.
This episode continues a conversation around Andy's book: Lasting Happiness: In Search of Deeper Meaning and Fulfilment. 
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos. 
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Editor: Yishak Haile