Relationary
The power and beauty of good relationships. A podcast for community builders, Christians and church leaders.
The power and beauty of good relationships. A podcast for community builders, Christians and church leaders.
Episodes
6 days ago
Pastor Seyi Olusile's Story
6 days ago
6 days ago
Pastor Seyi Olusile looks back on his long and eventful life with Andy.
Coming to England from Nigeria as a student, he was dazzled by the bright lights and found himself pursuing a random and destructive life – until he bumped into a childhood friend, who drew him back into life with God.
Thus began a sometimes tumultuous but rewarding life. Enjoy his story.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our website: https://relationary.org.uk/audio/And get in touch via Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationary.org.uk/
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Friday May 15, 2026
Relational Theology Day 2026 Review
Friday May 15, 2026
Friday May 15, 2026
What happened at this year's Relational Theology Day?
Andy and Robin discuss their experiences and thoughts on this year's Relational Theology Day.
Want to find out more? Follow this link.
Watch out for sign up for next year's RTD.
This episodes dives into the topics discussed this year, with a special emphasis on Ephesians 4, Microchurches, Deconstruction and Relational Theology.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities.
Find out more on our website
And get in touch via Instagram
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Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Wisdom
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
How can we grow in wisdom?
Robin discussed with Andy and Phil, the experience of practically growing in wisdom. This episode explores the holistic nature of wisdom, and its implications for every area of life.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Edited by: Yishak Haile
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Interview with Jide Ehizele
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
How do we navigate fractured society?
Jide Ehizele and Andy, discuss Jide's story. This episode explores questions of identity, and how this influences our posture in society.
Jide Ehizele, is a Christian thinker and writer focusing on faith, identity and cultural renewal.
In his Substack, Southeast London Psalms, Jide wrestles with faith, politics and community from the perspective of a Black British Christian living in modern Britain.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Edited by: Yishak Haile
Saturday Dec 13, 2025
Andy and Corin Pilling discuss how to pursue a flourishing life.
Saturday Dec 13, 2025
Saturday Dec 13, 2025
What gives you life?
Long-time friends, Corin Pilling and Andy, explore what it means, and some practical considerations, of pursuing a flourishing life. This episode explores how flourishing is deeply linked to meaning and connection.
Corin Pilling, is a Vocational Flourishing Officer at the Methodist Church.
You can connect with him via https://www.instagram.com/corinpilling/ Find out more on on this link.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Edited by: Yishak Haile
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
Lasting Happiness Part 3
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
What is the connection between happiness and purpose?
Andy speaks with Robin and Phil about the nature of happiness, in connection to a purpose-driven life, fuelled by relationships.
This episode continues a conversation around Andy's book: Lasting Happiness: In Search of Deeper Meaning and Fulfilment.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Editor: Yishak Haile
Friday Sep 26, 2025
What is Wisdom
Friday Sep 26, 2025
Friday Sep 26, 2025
What exactly is wisdom?
Robin unpacks with Phil and Andy what the Bible teaches about wisdom. This episode explores a broader definition of wisdom that goes beyond merely an intellectual capacity.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Editor: Yishak Haile
Friday Sep 12, 2025
Lasting Happiness Part 2
Friday Sep 12, 2025
Friday Sep 12, 2025
How do you define the good life?
Andy explores with Phil and Robin a subject from his book, Lasting Happiness, where they consider how to deal with the fragmented, compartmentalised and incoherent difficulties in life. This episode dives into how we try and deal with these struggles to attain the good life.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our website: https://relationary.org.uk/audio/And get in touch via Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationary.org.uk/
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Editor: Yishak Haile
Monday Sep 08, 2025
Team Culture
Monday Sep 08, 2025
Monday Sep 08, 2025
How can we make the best contribution to any team?
Robin and Andy discuss the bestselling book, The Culture Code: The Secret to Highly Successful Groups by Daniel Coyle.
This episode explores how individuals can play their part in building culture within teams.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our websiteAnd get in touch via Instagram
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Editor: Yishak Haile
Wednesday Jun 25, 2025
Lasting Happiness 1
Wednesday Jun 25, 2025
Wednesday Jun 25, 2025
What is happiness?
Andy dives into his book, Lasting Happiness, and discussed with Phil and Robin the link between the nature of happiness and relationships. This episode explores how the moments of sheer exuberance and delight in life often comes when we connect with others.
Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and enable healthy relationships between individuals and communities, with a Christian ethos.
We explore the community implications of relational theology across our podcast and blogs.
Find out more on our website: https://relationary.org.uk/audio/And get in touch via Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationary.org.uk/
Follow us to hear about upcoming events.
Editor: Yishak Haile



